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· 13 August 2026

Publishing my first book: seven things I learned along the way

What nobody tells you before publishing: timelines, the fear of the first review, and what actually moves a book.

Publishing my first book: seven things I learned along the way

Publishing ELYOR was thrilling and exhausting in equal measure. These are the seven things I wish I had known before.

Box of freshly printed copies
Box of freshly printed copies
  1. A book is never "finished". At some point you decide it is done, and that moment does not arrive on its own.
  2. The cover is narrative. It is not decoration: it is the book's first sentence.
  3. The first review is scarier than publication day. You survive it.
  4. Readers see things you never put there. And sometimes they are right.
  5. Marketing starts before you write the last page. Even if it is only sharing the process.
  6. A small, real community is worth more than a thousand cold followers.
  7. Writing the next book is the best promotion for the last one.

What I would do differently

Start sharing the process sooner: sketches, doubts, deleted scenes. People do not only fall in love with a book, they fall in love with how it is made.

If you are on your first manuscript: finish it. Everything else can be learned afterwards.


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